Dildos Demystified: Shapes, Sizes, Materials, and What Works for You
Dildos might be the oldest sex toy in existence (hello, ancient phallic artifacts), and they’re still going strong. But modern dildos are a far cry from whatever the Greeks were carving out of stone.
What Is a Dildo, Exactly?
A dildo is any toy designed for penetration that doesn’t vibrate (though some do both). Simple, versatile, and endlessly customizable.
Materials Breakdown
Silicone (Our #1 Pick)
- Body-safe, non-porous, easy to clean
- Soft, flexible, and comes in every color imaginable
- Try: VixSkin creations (dual-density, feels incredibly realistic)
Glass
- Smooth, hard, great for temperature play
- Non-porous and basically indestructible
- Try: Crystal Delights (gorgeous, handcrafted)
Stainless Steel
- Heavy, firm, incredible for targeted pressure
- Can be warmed or cooled
- Try: Njoy Pure Wand (technically a wand, but functions like a dildo)
Body-Safe Rubber/TPE
- More affordable, very flexible
- Can be porous — clean thoroughly and replace regularly
Shapes and Sizes
Realistic: Veins, balls, skin tones — fantasy fulfillment
Abstract/Artistic: Curves, colors, no resemblance to anatomy
G-Spot Targeted: Curved or bulbous head for G-spot stimulation
Double-Ended: Two ends for double the fun (or partner play)
Suction Cup Base: Hands-free fun on any flat surface
Strap-On Compatible: Flat base for harness use
Size Guide
- Beginner: 1–1.25 inches diameter, 5–6 inches insertable
- Intermediate: 1.5 inches diameter, 6–7 inches
- Advanced: 1.75+ inches diameter, 7+ inches
Rule of thumb: Start smaller than you think. You can always go bigger.
Pro Tips
- Use lots of lube — especially with firmer materials
- Suction cup dildos are underrated for solo play
- Dual-density silicone feels most realistic (soft outer, firm core)
Recommended Pick for Today
🍭 VixSkin Mustang — dual-density silicone, perfectly sized for beginners, and feels shockingly realistic. A classic for a reason.
Tomorrow: All about lube — the one thing that makes every toy better.